





On one index card, write their view on the front and yours on the back, using only verifiable facts and clear needs. If both sides could sign both sides, you are ready. Share it, invite edits, and propose a small test.
State what you appreciate about their point, add one bridging idea, and then offer a focused request. This improv-inspired pattern interrupts defensiveness while maintaining momentum. You are not agreeing with everything, just building a workable bridge toward shared progress today.
Practice a single sentence that protects your time while offering options, such as, I cannot join today, and I can share notes or suggest a quick async update. Rehearsed kindly, boundaries calm schedules and model respect for everyone’s energy.
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